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Notes from the Bench

What a jeweler would tell you

Fifty years of buying stones and building jewelry produces opinions. These are the answers Sharon gives clients who ask the real questions — what things cost, what holds up, and where the money actually goes.

GemstonesMarch 10, 20267 min read

How to buy pearls

Most people judge a pearl by how round it is. That is close to the least important thing about it.

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Engagement RingsMarch 2, 20268 min read

Colored stone engagement rings that actually last

A colored stone engagement ring is a wonderful idea and a genuinely risky one, depending entirely on which stone you pick. Here is the part most jewelers will not tell you.

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Custom DesignFebruary 18, 20267 min read

Resetting inherited jewelry

The most common thing in a jewelry box is a piece nobody wears. It has meaning, it has value, and it sits in a drawer for thirty years. There is a better outcome available.

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DiamondsFebruary 11, 20267 min read

Lab-grown or natural? An honest comparison

A lab-grown diamond is a diamond. That is not marketing; it is chemistry. The interesting questions are about price, resale and what you actually want.

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Engagement RingsFebruary 4, 20269 min read

How much does a custom engagement ring actually cost?

Nobody will give you a straight answer to this question, so here is one. The price of a ring is the stone, plus the metal, plus the labor. Everything else is overhead, and overhead is the part you get to skip.

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Engagement RingsJanuary 28, 20268 min read

Sapphire or diamond? What actually matters

Sapphire is the most serious alternative to diamond, and for a lot of people it is simply the better ring. Here is the comparison without the sales pitch on either side.

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DiamondsJanuary 20, 20268 min read

The four C's — and which one actually matters

Everyone selling a diamond will walk you through the four C's. Almost nobody will tell you that they are not equally important, or which ones you can quietly economize on.

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DiamondsJanuary 12, 20266 min read

The three C's nobody mentions

The four C's describe the stone. These three describe the transaction, and they are the ones that determine whether you got a fair deal.

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